31 Things You Probably Didn’t Know About Me

Well, I’m one year older. 31 to be exact.

If you aren’t a friend on Facebook yet, you can see the exact date. ;)

birthday cake

My father said you’ve just gained another ‘dumb year’. I thought about that and really that’s kind of true. You think you know what you’re doing now, but in reality, you’re always learning, growing and questioning how you’re going to move forward. Eventually you do advance but it starts with knowing nothing.

Thus, I celebrated early last night, which was why there was no Biography Fridays. Now, I want to do something different for today. A 31 things you didn’t know about me post. I think it’s about time.

So let’s get the ball rolling, here’s 31 things you probably didn’t know about me:

  1. I’m a bibliomaniac. I don’t know why but whenever I see books, I want them! That obsession has carried on to digital possessions as well. Hence, the e-library is reminiscent of that which is still growing.
  2. I don’t have any children but I love ‘em! You can say I’m a big kid myself because when I’m around them, you’ll see me running along too trying to fit through the small tubes and slides that says specifically ‘for children only’.
  3. On my off time, I teach and tutor students from the grades of kindergarten-5th to bring in some cash which goes towards getting new books, crayons and supplies for them.
  4. I used to write music. It all started with a guitar from Vietnam my Mom bought for me. You can hear Living the Dread over on Soundclick when I called myself ThuMUSE.
  5. My full name is Thu Huong Thi Nguyen. That’s Vietnamese. However, I’m American born so English is my first language. Thus, I prefer Thu Nguyen which has a kick to it that when you pronounced it, it comes out to ‘to win‘.
  6. I fix computers for a living. My focus is on ancient dinosaurs, which means the computers of yesterdays. Yes, those who still love their Windows 95 all the way up to Vista.
  7. I’m the oldest in my family which is of 5. We all have names that begin with H.
  8. I love Korean and Thai food. Add some sake from our Japanese brethren, you’ll find this Asian getting down.
  9. I’m into survival horror games. Thus, October baby. It was Resident Evil: Code Veronica that did it for me. From there on the Silent Hill series came along. The story, adventure, suspense – love it!
  10. I’m quite laid back. Many have misunderstood this as being non-social but I don’t really have a lot to say unless we’re working on something together. Thus, if you have something to get off your chest, I’ll listen. I can be a good friend.
  11. I don’t have any tattoos. I couldn’t make up my mind on what I want to brand on myself and look at for the rest of my life.
  12. I wear minimal jewelry. If I had a choice there would be short stubs and pearls for earrings. I’m always afraid the dangles might rip my ear off. For necklaces, thin, white, simple chains. Bracelets, same. Rings, are you looking? Yes, I married.
  13. I’ve never been to Disneyland or Disney World. :(
  14. I prefer comfort clothes – t-shirt, jeans, hoodie, sandals or slip on. Thus, I have that tomboy quality.
  15. I love chocolate – white, cacao, dark. You name it!
  16. I don’t do mornings well. Even though I’ve tried for the last 31 years adapting to the system, I still find myself full of productive energy at night. There’s probably that surprise element that’s attractive from burning the midnight oil.
  17. I like mustaches and goatees. Sadly, my husband doesn’t have one.
  18. I play two musical instruments – guitar and piano. However, if you ask me to sing you a song, that might take awhile. Thus, I play by ear, can read notes but play for leisure.
  19. I can’t dance. The best you’ll see coming out of me is the shoulder roll, head bop, swinging arms and hip shake. I think I do a mean arm pop though. :P
  20. I like the colors black, gray and white. No, I’m not emo nor goth. They just go well with everything.
  21. I sleep with my toes out. If my feet gets too hot, I can’t sleep. So give me a little air please.
  22. I use to take kung fu because I love kung fu movies. My favorite kung fu actor – Donnie Yen. If you ask me to show you some moves now, forget about it. I’m kind of rusty.
  23. I’ve lived in Chicago all my life.
  24. I would love to go traveling all over the world – Paris, Sydney, London, Amsterdam, Beijing, Toronto, Egypt, Saigon and Hawaii!
  25. Sometime in the future, I want to learn how to draw, do origami and fence.
  26. I don’t watch that much television but I Youtube or catch screencasts of how-tos.
  27. I don’t have an iPhone or iPad … yet.
  28. I can’t really swim. Took lessons, tried a couple of laps, ran out of air, but hey I can float!
  29. I didn’t drink until I was of legal age. Yes, 21. Late bloomer.
  30. I’m a homebody.
  31. I didn’t know I had that much things to share with you.

Alright, gotta head out now. Maybe you can share some things about you on your birthday too. Just keep in touch and I’ll talk to you soon!

Towards the Ranks, A Tale Up the Blogosphere

Today’s post is going to be on the lighter side as you’ll find there’s a narrative approach which instills some fantasy. However, don’t run away just yet. There’s a blogging element to it too so it’s not entirely irrelevant. Moreover, it’s about a journey towards guest posting, learning a new form of backlinking and finally … well, you’ll see. Enjoy!

Starting story …

I was swimming in the blogging pool and to my dismay, guest blogging was coming up. I can feel my hands sweat. So who do I choose to guest blog for?

Decisions.

Decisions.

My head must have been throbbing with process and practical concepts which I’ve read over and over again. The do’s. The don’ts. OK. I wasn’t going to step on any of those territories. But by the time I’ve overcame that obstacle I must have instilled so much fear inside, my action became weak.

I needed rest.

I wanted to regain some of the energy I had used absorbing in the myths, tall tales and dreadful suicides of the unknown in the blogosphere. Suddenly, I was the hobbit here treading through the mountain because I knew that the dark side was strong but I had faith.

Hobbit Panorama by David T. Wenzel

If I didn’t climb, I would be putting humanity against great risk.

How much longer will the ring overcome me?

With both my hands, I crawled the forums with strong winds scraping against my skin. The next journey says, enough with the information. Find partners to work with.

Paulie Ciara's Weekly PacketsFollowing the curving path around the overload of information, I fell upon Paulie Ciara’s free weekly backlink packets.

I can feel the light on my ring glow and I take hold to acknowledge I’m getting closer. I’m going to follow this journey and travel towards the ranks.

But to instill some justice into the overwhelming joy and not let the excitement disillusioned me, I searched on Google for some advice.

Is Paulie’s packets worth trying?

I’m confused as the force of Angela style links come into the picture.

Is Angela a code name?

Back when I mentioned that zombies make your fear look like child’s play, Resident Evil’s Code Veronica was a game which made a name subjective. Exploring who Paulie Ciara was and then learning about Angela, the world of blogging through backlinking just got deeper.

Typing in angela style links, I found an article entitled Angela and Paul Style Backlinks? WTF are they?

Excuse the tone but the breadth of the information was worth the time.

Not yet having a clue as to how backlinking works, the blogger, Babu conveyed the whole process in one sentence.

These backlinks are nothing other than forums and web 2.0 sites which allow you to register along with your website information in profile.

The article then goes on to explain how some businesses actually are paying for these types of backlinks. Thus, one of the service behind backlinking is magically opened in front of my eyes.

I felt a calling as well. I checked the ABOUT page which I have done so many times again and again and looked at the content of Babu’s site. I have no idea what SEO is but I was determined to learn.

The SEO course which David Jenyns presented with Gideon Shalwick was only a tip of the iceberg. Here, the blogger actually studied with him. I was impressed.

So I contacted Baba.

The rest as they say is history.

Moral of the Story

Blogging is an on-going journey. This hobbit hasn’t reached the top of the mountain yet. But with a few guest posts behind her, she continues to climb the ranks. Furthermore, the main idea is to take the initiative and build relationships online.

Finding a blog to communicate with and then making contact to write for is one of the most bravest, but also scariest thing you will ever do online. However, all great things come with courage. Just go out there and give it your best shot. The worse that can happen is you’ll fail.

Learn how to take it. Get it over with quick and then move on! It’s not about that moment in fear, it’s about those fears that are coming after it. Thus, long-term is where we’re all heading with blogging. If you’re afraid now, imagine how much more afraid you’ll be after.

And so, I’ve face my fears through taking action and wrote guest posts to:

So what did you think about today’s post? Would you like this to be a weekly weekend thing where a narrative is presented to inform and educate you on blogging or many of the other topics presented on this blog?

Share your thoughts below.

IMAGE: Hobbit Panaroma by David T. Wenzel

Beer and Blogging. What’s the Difference?

I didn’t drink beer until I was 21. Of legal age. But for many that’s late in the game. Despite it being illegal for teens to drink it’s common knowledge that drinking beer is one of the rites of passage which leads us into future social networks. Ever wonder why beer brands are such a great sponsor at events? I can’t answer that for you but if it’s available I don’t mind a cup. Thus, I know the beer industry makes a killing just because they’ve made themselves accessible.

Ever since I got my first buzz, my adult life continued to fill itself around the concoction. Until then I’ve been a social drinker who consumes it in moderation. I learned to know my limit. That’s important because without controlling your habits, you can steer yourself towards adopting an unhealthy lifestyle. So today, bloggers, marketers and socialites, what are the effects of beer? I’ll give you my reasons and to make it more fun let this be a brainstorming activity on blogging. Enlighten me with your comments on this one! :)

The First Taste

I stepped out of my comfort zone and gave in because it wasn’t worth it to stand aside and say no thanks anymore. That’s the reason why I started blogging as well. It was just time to try it. Take action and earn the experience rather than be opinionated and oblivious to why people are doing it. Note: I was already 21. The band-aid which protected me was no longer applicable. I was free to make my decision. I was responsible for my own actions and thus the freedom to drink beer was an advantage. Know yours!

While I thought the bitter liquid and weird smell wasn’t worth the taste, the nice warm feeling it gave me kept me smiling. From thereon the hops or the barley no matter the type of beer – lager, ale or hybrid, the outcome was all the same. Blogging creates this effect as well. All the bitter technicalities which comes with setting up your first blog and the fishy themes you can’t seem to be satisfied with wasn’t good enough to begin with. My timeline proves this theory. Then once I was satisfied with one physical aspect, the process continued to flow again. My face beamed and lit up the morning sun.

The Side Effects

As I continue to drink, I felt my face turn red and my breathing grew deep. My vision would then began to bounce off the walls. I would then feel this dizzy effect crippling my physical body. Walking a line would be a test of standing on a live wire in a circus. I would definitely fall. Worse I was slurring my words and the coherency of thoughts just made me look plain stupid.

This is common in blogging too. You don’t have a vision to start with. But you kind of have this purpose however it’s not clearly shaped. Your writing isn’t quite established. There’s passive voice in your speaking. So it does get me frustrated some days and I’m constantly bouncing off the wall churning up articles hoping someone will comment and notice me. As I get deeper into it, I can feel my sense of control spinning out of hand. My schedule for effective blogging piled on itself and I’m juggling 3-5 info-streams on blogging at the same time.

The Experience

My first hangover had me crawling to my room. I was pushing myself on the floor because I can’t feel my legs. I woke up the next morning, thirsty, light-headed and embarrassed. I don’t remember clearly what happened but I was in my bed, fully clothed. Whatever happened, at least I was at home when it occurred and not at a bar. :P

There’s a hangover in blogging as you continue the process long-term. From the moment you publish your first post to the latest tweak on your blog, the information slowly starts to build up. The momentum that continues will blind you from the hours and days you put into it. When you’ve had a bit too much you begin to lose a grip of the marketing side.

While it is nice to have great posts, who’s going to read them? Thus, having a balance between writing content and networking with other bloggers is key. Wherever there’s too much of anything, the experience becomes tumbling towards nothing. Know your limit!

Long-Term

It’s a known fact that drinking long-term is unhealthy for you. Being an addict going to rehab is not something you want to accomplish. It’s costing you a lot to build and once you let the world know you as a drunk, it just gets harder to stop. Even if it’s something you enjoy, doing it in large amounts can eventually kill you.

So here’s the difference when it comes to blogging long-term, you only get better. While you may become an addict posting content, as you build up your blog, it’s possible to sell it or monetize it depending on the numbers of readers you may have. It advantageous for you and not unhealthy. That’s the difference between beer and blogging. Overall, the possibility of drinking long-term can give you a belly. With blogging, you’re most likely going to have a fat paycheck. But that’s another story which I’m not qualified to talk about yet.

For now, I’m going to do both. Have a beer and blog at the same time. If I get drunk, I’ll just fill ‘er up with blogging. What about you, beer or blogging? Which one do you like more? What positive effects have you gotten?

Submit Your Haikus For Blogging

I want to invite bloggers or users who are interested in blogging to be creative and submit their haikus below.

Haiku is a Japanese form of poetry with 17 sounds collectively. It consists of 3 lines with phrases in the form of 5-7-5. These phrase would be independent of each other but more or less show understanding towards one another. When you read them out loud, it would be within a breath.

Please share with me your thoughts, experiences and frustrations on blogging.

Mines are below.

. . . . . . .
I have wordpress installed,
plug-ins galore arouse me
as my blog sings now.
. . . . . . .
Topic comes and goes,
a picture paints in my mind
to fill the colors.
. . . . . . .
A tweet updates me,
as a tunnel of ‘chutes
falls on top of me at once.
. . . . . . .
Ten comments today,
my race towards giving out
roses that won’t fade.
. . . . . . .
The sound of typing,
everyone is waking up
as the sun rises.
. . . . . . .
A new friend found me,
the link was below my blog
and I said hi.
. . . . . . .
Ebooks sit gently,
my hard drive is full of thoughts
to blog for this life.
. . . . . . .
I write quickly,
the car honks outside
and someone screams ‘move!’
. . . . . . .
A simple link here,
bodies from the blogosphere
comes fast to find out.
. . . . . . .
Cut and paste systems,
all bloggers write the same way
and find themselves lost.
. . . . . . .
I keep my pen close,
an e-mail says webinar
on making money .
. . . . . . .
So much for success,
it looks so hard at first
then hits heavy fast.
. . . . . . .
Goals and dreams don’t die,
opportunity knocks twice
and belief sinks in.
. . . . . . .
When some bloggers sleep,
the comments of users drop by
and contact is made.
. . . . . . .
Nothing is easy,
simple thinking makes dreaming
a reality.
. . . . . . .

Submit your creative haiku on what blogging means or is to you below. I’d love to hear what it is you have to say about blogging in 17 sounds.

How To Kill Your Presence Online

Here are some ways which you can kill your internet marketing persona. There’s no manual to download and no reading to engross technical jargon about analytics that makes you wonder if you’re doing your search engine optimization right. Just dig in and market. You’re the expert.

This is meant to be taken lightly with a pinch of salt. Anymore and you might have a heart attack.

1) Litter your blog or website with affiliate products, adsense and sponsored advertisement. Make sure that the heat maps which Google stresses are the hot spots to prying eyes. This will ensure you have enough ample time to make a sell if someone’s hungry enough to click through.

2) Innoculate your followers on twitter with massive amount of links leading them once again to affiliate products and links to your blog posts that have no value to them whatsoever. This makes you look busy and your profile trusting enough that perhaps someone will buy looking at your professional photo.

3) Make videos and talk about how you failed and learned to keep failing but haven’t made a dime but you will succeed because you can taste it. It’s on the tip of our tongue and yet you haven’t made your million yet. Plea your friends for a charity donation.

4) Create an e-mail list of subscribers and spam them with the latest new hot trends and products, insert all your affiliate links to tell your readers to click here and here. Lead them to a sales page where they have to shell out their credit card to buy a $997 product just so you can get a 75% commission cut and that you will promise them a bonus which never comes.

5) Make friends on Facebook and stalk them until you can make a sell. This will ensure that they will leave you alone. If this doesn’t work, try their twitter account. If not, their digg, stumbleupon, etc., etc.

6) Finally, the best killer of them all is to sale something to your user and when they open it up, it’s a book of blank pages. This will be certain that they will complain and e-mail you when you’ve already cashed in and cancelled all tracks which leads back to you.

Doing the above will make certain that your internet marketing career will shoot itself down to the ground.

Did I miss anything else? Share your thoughts below.